Okay am I the only one who sees how crazy people can get over another person or is everyone else also peeping this out? Life is crazy I have like a million and one things I worry about on a daily basis so the fact that the relationships I choose to have come with these strong almost "fatal" bonds makes my anxiety really bad. Guys, how do you feel about fatal attractions? Do you approve of the movement or do you disapprove? If someone was so crazy to the point that they would really hurt you and claim that it's because they love you and even said sorry how would you handle that situation? I've been through many power struggles so I know the feeling, but I know there is waaaaaay more people out there who goes through these type of power struggles everyday with NO way out. I'm sure the problems I've had with others doesn't touch the problems others my have with other people. I'm sure there's alot of you reading right now thinking of the fatal bonds you have with those crazy people who just love you that much to make a complete fool out of themselves and hurt you in the worse way. Or maybe it isn't love maybe it's control issues? Jealousy? Drugs? Insecurities? Depression? WHO KNOWS! The point is that this is what the world is coming to and if no one wants to speak up on it I will be the one to do it. Everyone is this the new thing now? Do we like the til death do us part friendships/relationships or is it something else causing these sort of power struggles in the connections we make with others in our life? What if I was totally and completely fed up and done with someone who is fatally "bonded" to me? Is it fair for me to cut all ties? Is it okay for em to hurt, harm, or threaten me in anyway? Is it okay for me to defend myself if I feel like my life is threatened? Should I just go coco crazy with the crazy ass mother fucker? Should we forget about the power struggle at hand and just kiss and make up? I know alot of you go through this so I am not saying that it's childish I'm only stating that this has become the norm now. My granddaddy on my daddy side is in jail for life for killing his girl after he caught her cheating. Who knows if he was right or wrong. She could have been trying to get away from him and be by herself. He probably never mentioned her to anyone and never claimed her. He probably was doing what niggas do best (which is sling his dick around) and never paid her no mind until she found someone knew. She probably was single for years and he just so happen to catch her while she was mingling and decided he'd rather her be dead and he spend life in jail instead of allowing her to live without him. Who really knows? The point is he loved her so much he went crazy, took her life, and his life basically? All because of the bonds we build with others we find ourselves in messed up situations trying to save face. All because of a fatal attraction we can't think straight. Can you think straight about this topic? What do you think? -Ki